*Update* Why am I not sleeping? Because it's 3 in the afternoon...
I slept over T's house last night, which should have been good, but things were tenuous. We had a few minor squabbles about silly stuff. She's PMSing, so I guess that's understandable, but still. It was nice to see her and cuddle, though.
She had a friend over last night and they ordered Chinese. T ordered extra just so I could have some food for lunch today. How nice was that?
I put up a little note on the mirror and snuck a sex-position card (stupid little card game we got a while back, but the cards are funny to look at) under her pillow.
T read my blog and wasn't too happy with my (pseudo)single post. I guess I could see where she was coming from - here I am supposed to be working on staying together and I'm posting about how happy I am being single (which was not what it was about). It was meant to be a bit tongue-in-cheek and a focus on the positives of the situation, but I think she took it the wrong way. We haven't fully talked about it yet. Hopefully, we'll sit on it for a few days until T is over her PMSing and we'll look at it rationally. If not, I'm sure we'll get through it.
***Update***
Well, there were three things "wrong" with my post:
1. Like Maidink and Diana (comments) said, never-ever use the word single if you're not. I should have title it something like - "Benefits of living alone."
2. Not a good idea to air out personal laundry, particularly when it's still fresh.
3. I should have been a lot clearer that the post was tongue in cheek and that I really preferred the alternatives. Even though they were in the comments, it was not enough.
T put these differently, but this is how I take it and will remeber in the future.
***End Update***
Sorry for the post being somewhat dry, but I am uninspired about OKMG today... I'm sure it has to do with the post issue from above and the fact that I am tired as hell...
Anyway, have a great weekend!
Sunshine
6 comments:
HEY...
HOW U DOING????
AND HOWS YOUR NEW MISSION HAPPENING???
Maidink - *Whines* But I used the word "pseudo", that makes it fake. *stops whining* Well, we'll be talking about it today (joy) and hopefully we can get it ironed out. But, you're right, that's pretty much what it is. And I should SO know better.
Steve - It's going good. We're having ups and down, but overall, my mission is on its way to success. Thanks for stopping by.
I agree with maidink. That said, she should cut you some slack since you did at least recognize that you unintentionally hurt her. I'm sure you guys will work through that. Sending over more positive energy!
The one thing that ensures things like this will be worked out is just talking about it--with a willingness to listen, which I hope is present on both sides. Minor issues can stay minor issues because of that.
i think our whole conversation about thinking about the opposites and what we truly what sums up where your heart truly lies, with her.
Diana - Yeah, that "single"-thing was part of the problem. Eventually she realized I didn't mean to hurt her.
Slskenyon - Nice to see you, it's been a while! We are definitely open communicators. Unfortunately, T is not blessed with the ability to see both sides of the issue like I am, so it's tough sometimes to get her to understand my intentions on something.
Sky - My sentiments exactly! I think she got it finally.
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