Thursday

Operation KMG #2

Action:

I sent her a text message "Good Morning Sunshine." For some reason, she really loves it when I do that and I used to do it all the time. Personally, I think it's hilarious that people say that. (Little tidbit of random info. I never got the significance of that phrase, b/c, I mean, hello, that's my name. Only after T pointed it out to me, did I get it.)

Response:

She got all warm and fuzzy. She said it reminded her of old times when I would wake her up every morning with a text like that.

For the purposes of full disclosure, I actually was going to write her a hand written (redundant, I know) note, but I forgot. The advantages of technology...

Shout out to Feisty Red for the tips! She's on the ball, so what's up with everybody else? Hmm?

Sunshine

****For background on OKMG, see here.****

4 comments:

H said...

I see someone told you to leave notes, and that's a great idea. Here's a variation on it that works for me when being romantic with my lady.

Got a dry-erase marker? You know, one of those markers you use on whiteboards? Write a loving message on the mirror in the bathroom. That works very well especially if you're the first to leave, so she knows you still think about her while you're gone.

Also, if she travels a lot, sneak lovenotes into her luggage. Doesn't have to be long, just something that says "I miss you" or "I love you" or "Make sure you wear this pair of underwear...ggrrrrowl!"

Hope that helps - best of luck to you in OKMG. (Found your blog via my watching of Operation OFAG with Rouge).

Sunshine said...

Woot! Great tip H. I've done the writing on the mirror b4 with lipstick, but it's been a while.

She doesn't travel, but she brings lunch to work, so I can sneak a note in there.

Lovin it!

Sunshine

nycrouge said...

My question is, and maybe this is because I haven't been following your story, is why the need for all the effort? Don't get me wrong -- girls love this sort of attention, but is the goal to keep her from moving out? To keep from breaking up? Just make sure you don't head towards overkill.

Sunshine said...

nycrouge! Hey, thanks for stopping by (and leaving a comment!).

Don't worry, you didn't miss the story or naything. Basically T is moving out and we're separating. There's a variety of reasons, but one of them is that I don't place her in high enough priority (or at the veryleast show her that I do) and I'm not romantic or lovey-dovey.

She's all those things and more. But, she requires A LOT of attention and I'm really difficult at giving it. (She's a cancer and I'm a sag explains it all IMO.)

Anyway, I really love her and don't want to break up, so I'm trying to change some things.

And trust me, overkill would not be an option with her. Plus, I don't think my wiring would allow me to overkill on the romance option!

Sunshine

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